求助:小学校长应该关心什么
<p>我受朋友邀请要给小学校长讲讲儿童发展的问题。我对小学校长,尤其是在乡村的小学校长和教师的状况(包括学生的状况)不甚了了。如果各位对小学校长应该怎样当,应该关心儿童发展和教育的哪些问题有所心得,望不吝赐教。</p> 戴耘兄客气了,你是这方面的专家呀。 <p>承蒙茶兄善待。我终于决定不作任何高调宣讲,而是讨论“需要呵护的小学生的三种品质”和“需要培养的小学生的三种品质”。我准备让小学校长们对每个问题写下三个关键词来,从那儿开始,让校长们自己解说,我做点穿针引线的活(我自己袖里当然也会藏些东西)。是否有效,待我回来后报告。</p> <p> 好办法!</p><p> 曾经在我校举办的中小学校长培训班上组织过类似的讨论,题目是别人定好的。讨论中发现,南京的小学校长们思想相对开放一些,但南京的中学校长们基本上是没救了。</p> 很想听听David先生具体是如何操刀的,期待下文! <p>7月6日戴耘教授、孙绍振教授的报告,欢迎博友们旁听</p><p> 生命化教育课题组召开实验学校小学校长会议,特地邀请美国纽约州立大学戴耘教授作《理解儿童与小学教育的使命》的报告,邀请福建师范大学孙绍振教授作《阅读与教师专业发展》的报告。很多博友或来电或在博客上留言希望能够有旁听的机会,我首先深表欢迎之意,同时因为场地有限,希望要来旁听的博友在这里留下你的名字或博客地址,以便我们作具体的安排。<br /> 一、会议时间与地点:<br /> 会议报到时间:2007年7月5日<br /> 会议时间 :2007年7月6日至7日<br /> 报到地点:福州市中山路福建省商业厅大院商业大厦二楼西岸课程中心<br /> 住宿地址:福州市冶山路福建省林业厅招待所(西岸课程中心对面)<br /> 联 系 人:西岸课题中心庄老师 13665057020<br /> 二、博友的交通费、食宿费自理,如有其他需要请告知。</p> <font size="4">涉及儿童的事情总是应该慎而又慎的。不过,我自己非常困惑的是:我们的教育在儿童的发展过程中究竟起了多大的作用?什么样的教育才能有助于儿童的发展?教育的确是件非常麻烦的事情,它的麻烦在于:一方面教育不得不顾及儿童的当下性,另一方面教育又不得不联系着成人世界。教育处于张力之中。以成人世界殖民儿童世界固然不对,但以儿童世界拒斥成人世界似亦不妥。具体到学校中的儿童教育,呵呵,就更加麻烦了。</font> 怎么没了下文? <p>对不起。回来已经几天了。没有跟这个贴。我让校长们写三个关键词。下面是他们的回答。</p><h1 style="margin:17pt 0cm 16.5pt;line-height:100%"><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman'">关键词</span><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman'">(儿童身上需要呵护的品质或特征)</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><p></p></span></h1><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;line-height:100%"><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%;font-family:黑体;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman'">好奇</span><span lang="EN-US" 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style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%;mso-fareast-font-family:黑体"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:12pt 0cm 0pt;line-height:100%"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman'">自信 习惯 毅力 感恩 宽容 职责 诚信 责任 </span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:12pt 0cm 0pt;line-height:100%"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman'">自主 正直 坚持 爱心 上进 勤奋 方法 智慧</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:12pt 0cm 0pt;line-height:100%"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span 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style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><p></p></span></b></p><p>我自己讲了前三个是“率真”(一座不设防城市),“好奇”(就像一头几个月大的小狮子,或辛巴,什么他都想尝试,知道)和“想象”(我用了哈里波特的例子,主要讲小孩在想象中的替代性经历)</p><p>后三个我讲了“独立”(我们很多家长把什么都承包了,只要小孩?“成绩好”,忘了教育的目的是他(她)要有一个自己的头脑!),“自信”(我们的体制让许多孩子早早就成为失败者,经历“习得性无助”,和“责任”(很朴素的定义,你的一个承诺,一个行为,都有后果,都需要承担)。</p><p>对校长们的“内隐信念”我觉得道德层面的强调得多了点。比如,我希望其中有“怀疑,挑战权威”之类。因为没有这个,我们怎么指望下一代比我们强。</p><p>有些老师提出你如果呵护小孩的“调皮”出了事故怎么办?做校长教师的很容易从“控制”和“管理”角度看问题。</p><p>晚到的汇报。抱歉。</p><p></p> <p> <font color="#4822dd">“做校长教师的很容易从‘控制’和‘管理’角度看问题。”</font></p><p> 深有同感。不知道戴耘兄是怎么回答的。碰到这种问题,我会觉得很难办,因为不是三言两语能跟对方说清楚的。提这种问题的人,其实是要求你进入他们的思路,按他们的思维方式来思考问题。但是他们自己不这么认为。如果你不能回答,或者不能马上回答,他们会认为你的理论有缺陷,甚至会觉得你只会空谈。我在前面说,南京的中学校长基本上是没救了,就是因为这个。因为那次和中小学校长的分别对话,我明显能感觉到:小学校长一开始也不理解我说的道理,但我耐心地解释以下,他们理解了;而相当一部分中学校长仍然顽固地坚持他们的思维方式,准确地说,他们害怕接受我所说的道理。</p> 校长们写的部分关键词我怎么不能理解?比如儿童身上需要呵护的品质或特征:习惯、白纸、错误、心灵、身体、孩子的想法、生命状态、相处的方式、人格。[em06] 我也有点纳闷,可能是有特殊含义的。 估计David兄也一头雾水,干脆回避。 乌龙茶的同事又添一个:戒尺页:
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